So what does work? Here are some techniques Professor Wiseman has found in his study that are effective at helping people reach their goals: 1) Breaking goals down into small steps, then rewarding themselves when each stage has passed. 2) Telling friends about what they were trying to achieve. 3) Reminding themselves of the benefits …

Not that quasi-friends are entirely bad. Sociologists have shown that “weak ties” are as crucial to the flourishing of social networks as strong ones; more quasi-friends probably also means more job opportunities, and more chance of making real friends, or meeting the love of your life. Perhaps all we need is some kind of technological …

Examining the unlived life

Alex has a wonderful essay up this week on the unexamined life vs the unlived life. I recognized so much of myself in his description of his early college self. And i would say it’s only been fairly recently that I’ve decided to bias myself towards action — even fidgety action — over excessive rumination. …